Know when to be sexy

Being sexy is for your husbands eyes only. You must never wear anything revealing or sexy anywhere else other than the home. Do not just spring this on your husband , he will tell you when he wants you to be sexy. Never try to surprise him after work wearing something revealing. A man wants to know he is in control, you can never be demanding and expect him to want you. Always stay sweet and feminine and smile when your husband is around, be open and willing to wear and act however he wants you to. You do not make these choices, your husband will tell you what he wants. It is your job as a good wife to listen to your husbands needs. Some husbands don't want their wife to ever dress or act sexy and that is OK.

His little secret

Yes girls your husband has needs that you sometimes wont be enough to fill. With Internet giving our men a full open world to browse anything from sex toys to cyber sex. We are at a little bit of a disadvantage than the woman of the 1950's. However we can treat it exactly the same. Meet the needs you can for your husband, and stay true to him. It is OK if he wants to spend hours surfing the Internet, remember he works hard and however he wants to unwind is his choice. Never ask questions and never spy on his behaviour, I like to just turn a blind eye to things like this. Of course your husband is looking and that is OK, he is the king of his castle. Serve your husband well and make him feel comfortable in every area of the home. Never complain if your husband doesn't come to bed at the same time as you, and never question him if he leaves late at night. Know your place and continue to look after the things that are yours to worry about. Your husband is not your child, you have no rights to tell him what he can or can't do. You are very lucky to have him and must always treat him as just that. Never talk with your friends about what your husband does behind his closed doors, this is his house.

Cleaning hints

This ad from the 1950's still rings true, SOS has been around for a long time and still is one of the best tools for keeping your home clean. There are many new tools out there today to make our job so much easier. One of my favorites is the Mr. Clean magic eraser, you can clean almost anything with those. Remember to pay attention to detail in your cleaning. I always do a 10 minute check over before my husband arrives home to make sure everything is perfect. Keep all cleaning products well hidden away under the sink, you don't want your loving husband to know your little tricks that help you through your day.

A rememinder

Here is another great ad from the 1950's. Do woman actually think that men no longer want their wives to douche? Make sure you read my article on feminine hygiene for the real truth.

Keep it clean girls, your husband deserves a feminine, clean wife.

Hiring Help

Hiring help around the house is not an option for a good wife. So many people are now handing their duties over to other people. Hiring someone else to do the work that is yours to do is a bad idea for so many reasons. Remember this is your home when your husband isn't there. Hiring help is like bringing in another wife for your husband. I have explained your duties as a wife, although tiresome sometimes it could always be worse. Remember that your husband is working hard every day and so should you be. Do you want another woman meeting his needs? If you decide to hire help, then you can not complain if the help meets your husbands needs better than you.

Mistakes Happen

Even the best wives sometimes make mistakes, I find that it is all in the way we look at these mistakes that make a difference. If you burnt dinner, don't fret. Smile when your husband arrives; bring him a cold beer and make sure he is relaxed before you tell him what has happened. As long as you gave your husband time to unwind and you weren't frantic, this is a great way to get to order out for a evening. Try very hard not to let it occur to often however or he may start to feel that you aren't caring for his needs enough. Unfortunately if a husband starts to feel stress at home upon his arrival he may not come home for dinner the next night.

Always stay calm and know that this little set back is nothing , After all you are a great wife.

The Skinny On Girdles

Girdles are still very much a part of our lives and can be just what you need to look your best. I am not talking about just when you are going out or entertaining at a party. It is important that you look your best all of the time. Do not ever step out of the house without looking your best. The way you look even when your husband isn't home can still have impact on his day. Imagine one of his friends driving by or a neighbor seeing you walk out to the mail box less than perfect. This could completely destroy a marriage. I know woman don't think that girdles are comfortable, but you have chosen to be a wife and a housekeeper, your comfort is not important.
My personal experience with girdles is the tighter the better. I also find that after some hours of wearing them, you hardly notice it is there.

Keep smiling

We all have days that it is hard to keep that smile on your face. When these days happen I have to remind myself that no matter how hard my day is, my husbands is always worse. Remember to keep a smile on your face at all times when greeting your husband, this makes him feel happier. Be warm and loving without ever being clingy, your husband will tell you if he feels like being hugged. Don't bother your husband with your feelings, they will pass and soon you will be back to your old self. When I am feeling down, I like to do something extra special for my husband, sometimes I will bake a desert or even clean out all his dresser drawers and re wash his clothing. What ever you do, smile sweetly when your husband is around. This is another tip on how to be a good wife.

Hosting Parties

My husband loves to entertain, we have many friends that call after our parties just to tell him what a great success it was. Making sure everyone has a good time can be very tiresome, but to see the smile on your husbands face from all the praise he got is so worth all the effort. I always take notes from my husband before our get together, do not ask to many questions. Sometimes my husband wants to choose the menu and sometimes he wants nothing to do with the planning. I always start by giving him the choice to avoid any misunderstandings. After all this is his time to really shine, and everything must be perfect. The night before the big event I choose to tuck my husband in and get right to work. One night without sleep is well worth still being able to complete all my regular chores the next day. Prepare all your husbands favorites and if you are feeling a little wild you can even try a new recipe. Trying new recipe's at parties is just fine, this helps to build your husbands menu for other nights. If you are really lucky he may have a new favorite. Always look your best at your husbands get together, smile allot and show everyone just how happy you are. Never interrupt your husband when he is speaking and always agree with everything he has to say. Serve the guests, but your number 1 priority to to serve your husband. Watch his cues carefully, try to stay one step ahead when he needs another drink. Never complain if your husband takes all the credit for the party, this is his party and he deserves all the compliments he can get. Remember tomorrow will be another hard work day for your husband, so tonight is all his. If there are single ladies at the party I always try and turn in early and leave the cleaning for the next day. This gives my husband his time, Men are different than woman and he may want to get extra compliments from the ladies to boost his ego. Never spy and never complain if you see him with another woman. This was his party and he can do whatever he needs to. Some great tips on being a good wife.

Skin Care

I know it is hard to find time to keep your skin looking young, Sometimes your husband doesn't want to pay for skin care products. You defiantly don't want your husband to look younger than you, so skin care can not be left undone. There are things you can do that won't cost your husband a dime. Make sure when you sleep you never sleep on your side or stomach, you want to remain perfectly still on your back, this will help to decrease that chance of wrinkles as well as leave you looking beautiful if your husband should roll over and look at you. You can try things right from your refrigerator to help keep your skin fresh, but it is crucial that you do this when you are positive that your husband it not going to make a surprise visit home. Your husband does not want to see you less than perfect, always make sure that no matter what you do to keep your skin young, it is done when your husband isn't home. It can be your own little secret.

Your body is his

There is nothing more important than keeping your body in shape. By now you know what body type your husband likes and it is your job to make sure that it always stays that way. I see far to many woman thinking that after marriage it is OK to gain a few pounds, this will drive your husband away. You must continue and work very hard on not changing. I don't care if you have had children, that is an excuse. Remember your husband is with you because he chose you the way you are. If you let yourself go he has all rights to chose someone else and you can not complain about this. Be dainty, eat slowly and not to much. A man doesn't want to watch you eat a hardy meal like he does. He worked hard today, there is no need for you to finish your meal..

This is a great tip on being a good wife, trust me your husband will be happy for many years to come if his wife can still fit into her wedding dress 20 years later.

Serve his favorites

Don't try and save money by buying foods that aren't your husbands favorites. Your husband knows what he likes and it is up to you to make sure that those simple pleasures are always available for him. If you are indeed a good wife you already know what he likes and dislikes, It is important that your taste follows his. Never even consider having something in the home that your husband would not eat himself. Can you imagine if you got caught off guard with a kiss after eating something that your husband didn't love? Your taste don't matter, your husband knows what is good and what isn't. This is a great tip for being a good wife. The money is his anyways and it is not up to you to decide where money should be saved.

Woman! Know your place.

Here's another ad from the 1950's. I know so many of you look at this ad and think that it isn't right. It is important for you to understand if you are living up to all you can be as a wife and homemaker this will never be you. A husband should never have to feel anger in his own home, It is your responsibly as a good wife to make sure everything is complete before he arrives home from a hard day. Sometimes if things are out of place his anger from work can be taken out on you, this won't happen if you make the home a place of tranquility for your one and only. Like the ad says we as woman need to know our place, don't ask to many questions, don't talk to much about your day. Your husband has things on his mind and we don't need to bother him with our petty chat. Listen to your husband and his needs every day. Remember we are making this movement back to a time where woman want to be at home, we have to respect that without our husbands this would not be possible.

Be Cute

Look at this ad from the 1950's, what does it say to you? Yes you guessed it, the harder we work the happier our relationship will be. Remember we are home now, we have broken away from woman in the work force. We have opened up so many jobs for our men, we are lucky. Yes our days are very busy, but they are busy doing what we know. We no longer need to send our daughters off to collage, we are the teachers. Remember it is in our blood, we know how to be a good wife. All of us woman just need to step back and it will come naturally. Think of the smile on your husbands face, that alone should be enough to get you through your day. Never forget it is your husband that works, not you! You are doing what you naturally are born for, and with my help you will do a great job of it.

Feminine Hygiene

We as woman now have so many options for good feminine hygiene. Woman of the 50's used Lysol to keep fresh for their husbands, I am so pleased that we no longer have to use this option. However this is a very important part of being a good wife. You never know when your husband is going want to be with you especially if you are trying for a child. Keep it clean girls!! My rule of thumb is to make sure you rise at least a hour before it is time for your husband to get up. Clean yourself up at this time , I also apply a little make up and perfume at this time. Then return to bed as if this is just the way you wake every morning. Your husband will be pleasantly surprised that his wife always smells fresh. After you get your loving husband off to work, it is time to think about feminine hygiene once again. You can never be sure that your husband won't come home for lunch or even a early afternoon stress release, so be ready for the unexpected. Even if your husband did not return in the afternoon, night time is of course a crucial time to be clean. I try to fit this time in sometime after dinner and cleaning, you want it to be as close to bedtime as possible without taking time away from the little things that your husband needs to end his day. Over time fitting feminine hygiene will become so easy, keep your men happy ladies. The man is the king of his home and you are so very lucky to be able to serve him.

Some Time For You

OK ladies it is time for me to talk about time for yourself. Yes it is OK for you to have some simple pleasures that are yours. Drinking can really help you to prepare for your husbands arrival home from work. I find that it only takes a few to really put me in the right head space to cater to him for the rest of the evening. Remember we are very lucky that we did not have to work a long day out of the home. Do not drink to much or he may notice and you may not be able to preform the duties that are yours to preform. A few glasses of wine are perfect! These tips are between us girls, trust me I will share more :)

Don't let it happen to you.

This add really deserves some attention. I know many woman that talk about being treated like a area rug. I personally understand this add, obviously this wife was not meeting her duties. I feel that this add really is speaking to the woman of the future, Is this what you want to become? My husband would never stand on me because he knows that I know his rightful place. This is what you could become if you do not respect your husband and meet his needs at all time. It is sad but very true ladies.

The Good Wife Guide

I am so happy to share this with you, It really hits the nail on the head. Of course it doesn't cover every detail, but it is a really good start to a lesson on being a good wife.

I have typed it all out, because I feel that it is a very important read for woman everywhere. It is so nice that we have the Internet to learn from the past.

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.
Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc and then run a dust cloth over the tables.
Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will give you immense personal satisfaction.
Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
Be happy to see him.
Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first-remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, or goes out to dinner, or other place of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal: try to make your home a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Consider this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
Arrange his pillows and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. you have no right to question him.
A good wife always knows her place.

The Time Is Now!

Ladies, I am a newly married woman that wants to finally stand up for what we all believe in. To many woman are actually bowing down to this whole woman's lib way of thinking. I personally know that their are many woman out there that really understand and know that no matter what woman are trying to achieve , we made a mistake. We need to unite and finally go back to a life of servicing our men the way they truly deserve to be. I am tired of hearing about this recession, If us woman returned to the home where we belong we would have plenty of jobs for the men that really are the masters in this world and the work force. Today is the beginning of my movement a movement that I would have never started without my husband standing by my side giving me permission. Today is the first day of all our lives, lets step back and remember the woman from the past and the happier days. You won't be doing this alone, Your husband will agree. It is in his blood to be the man of the house and it is in yours to be the wife, mother and lover that he so desires. I will help you break through this barrier that has been put up from woman that are sadly single and will never really make a good wife. The divorce rate is so high, do you wonder why? I and my loving husband know why! Woman are wondering around in this time unsure of weather they are woman or men. I have some hard truth for you, It may scare you to make this change, but you are NOT a man and it is about time we take our proper place back in the home and respect and adore the men that have worked so hard for so many centuries to be our true saints. In this blog I will teach you not only how to be a good wife, housekeeper and mother but how to have a little time for yourself. It is time for me to stop writing for now as my husband is starting to feel some late night snacks, but you can be sure that I will continue with my movement to a happier life for all of us. This is what will liberate us all!